My experience was a few years ago now.
I met a guy through Gaydar and we started chatting. Turned out he was a submissive bottom guy just like me. We decided to meet up for a chat which eventually led to his bedroom. We spent the next couple of hours using pretty much all of his toys to destroy our asses while we were getting out of it on poppers. We even tried a bit of mutual fisting which was fucking amazing. When both our asses were suitably wrecked we pissed over each other and wanked to an amazing orgasm. Ended up staying the night and was woken with a dildo up my ass and his mouth working my cock. Such a fucking awesome night. Sadly we never saw each other again but the memories still get my cock hard.